Why Is My Ex Acting So Indifferent Towards Me?

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Why Is My Ex Acting So Indifferent Towards Me?

Today we’re going to be talking about why your ex is so indifferent towards you, and what you can do about it.

The first thing to do is define what Indifference is, ultimately it is a lack of sympathy or concern about you or your situation. In other words, your ex doesn’t care about you at all. I believe the only way you are going to be able to find that your ex is indifferent to you is from having a conversation, and this is from the type of response you get from your ex. Now there are four types of conversations you can have;
Positive response
Neutral response
Negative response
No response

Now the big misconception I see people having is that if you get three of these responses, the neutral, negative or no response, that it means your ex is indifferent towards you. But that is actually false. Now if you were to get a negative response from your ex then it does mean that they care on some level, they cared enough to get angry and snap at you.

On the other hand, if you are just getting neutral responses each and every time you reach out to your ex, or your ex is flat out ignoring you. It might be a sign that your ex is being very indifferent towards you.

Why they are acting so indifferent towards you?
Why aren’t they responding to your text messages?
Why are they sort of half-hearted in their responses?
Why are they acting so indifferent towards you?

Following research, we have found that there is three main reason why an ex would act indifferent towards you;
#1 – They think they are above you,
What does it look like when an ex thinks they are above you?
Ultimately, I talk to my clients about putting their ex on a pedestal, and why that is such a bad idea to do that. Often when exes feel they have the high ground over you, they feel in a weird way that they are better than you. Another way of looking at this is that they think they won the break up. We see a lot of this where they move on to someone else and have what we call the grass is greener syndrome, they think that they can get better than you.

#2 – They think talking to you is boring
What are the tell tales signs is when you get into the conversation but quickly whittle down and stop talking to you. There are two reasons they are going to think that talking to you is boring. One being that whatever you are reaching out to them with is boring to them, the second is that there is a consistent history of talking to you where things kind of get dull. They don't really want to spend their time doing that.

#3 – They think talking to you is too much drama
The best way to describe this is using the acronym, GNAT, a lot of people have different reactions from a break up. But if your ex was a way to beg them cry and text them to get them back. If you do something that is crazy, or drama filled it would turn off to your ex, it's a high maintenance situation.

What are some of the ways that we can get an ex to pay attention towards you?
The first thing is understanding where the indifference set in, in the relationship. In my experience that the indifference happens in the relationship before the breakup occurs, where they stop replying to your texts straight away. When and why this started happening is going to help you understand the indifference.

The second thing, if you have watched these videos before, it's about the stability and mystery spectrum. Indifference comes hand in hand with boredom. When things become the same and dull you become indifferent towards it. So, this is where the mystery and stability spectrum, where we need both in the relationship to make it work. And when you get into a relationship you have both of these going on, but as the relationship develops you stop being both and become more of one or the other. The issue with his is every ex has a different level of what they want in a person, there they would be more attracted to someone who is more spontaneous, or someone more stable.

Whatever you are lacking is where you want to reshape your ex's perception of you, this is your chance to re shape your perception of you. 90% of the people I work with fall into the stable category, who forgot to keep up with the mystery in your relationship.

To do this, the one question you need to answer;
What is the one thing that your ex would never expect you to do?

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