Overgiving in Dating After 40? Why It Keeps You Attracting Unavailable Men (Ep. 50)

Описание: Overgiving in Dating After 40? Why It Keeps You Attracting Unavailable Men (Ep. 50). This is episode 50 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast.

If you’re dating after 40 and you keep finding yourself overgiving, explaining, managing emotions, or staying longer than feels good, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on.

In this episode, I’m talking about the emotional caretaker identity: why overgiving isn’t neediness, but a survival strategy you likely learned early in life. When love has been associated with effort, responsibility, or fixing others, emotionally unavailable men can feel strangely familiar, while calm, available men can feel underwhelming or “boring.”

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✨ In This Episode You’ll Learn:
Why overgiving feels automatic (and why it’s not a flaw)
How caretaking creates imbalance and attraction to unavailable men
Why calm, emotionally available men can feel unfamiliar at first
The shift from emotional caretaker to chooser
What it really means to receive love instead of working for it

Timestamps:
00:00 Understanding the Emotional Caretaker Identity
02:18 The Impact of Overgiving on Relationships
04:58 Reframing Love and Responsibility
07:06 The Chemistry of Caretaking vs. Healthy Love
10:01 Shifting from Caretaking to Receiving
12:05 Identifying Healthy Relationships
14:21 The Journey to Self-Discovery and Authenticity

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