Why They Pull Away Just When You Get Close (Avoidant Explained) | Therapists Tehrina & Joel

Описание: Ever had someone pull away just when the relationship started to feel real? This video goes inside the mind of an avoidant partner to explain why emotional closeness triggers fear—and why you can’t “love them into healing” from the outside. 👉 Get our Must Haves & Deal Breakers Guide: http://eepurl.com/iT8Kx-/
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✨ In Today’s Video:
Through Michael’s story, we’ll explore:
💔 Why avoidant partners often pull away when intimacy deepens
💔 How anxious-avoidant dynamics create painful push-pull cycles
💔 Why real healing has to happen from within—not through your love
This video is part of our core attachment series following Michael, Emma, and Rebecca—each on a path toward secure connection.
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Videos in this series:
Episode 1: Top 5 Relationship Red Flags -    • Top 5 Relationship Red Flags | Therapists ...  
Episode 2: 4 Hard Truths About Avoidant Partners (You NEED To Hear) -    • 4 Hard Truths About Avoidant Partners (You...  
Episode 3: 5 Signs You're In A Healthy Relationship:    • 5 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship |...  
Episode 4: Why They Pull Away Just When You Get Close (Avoidant Explained) -    • Why They Pull Away Just When You Get Close...  
Episode 5: Fearful-Avoidant Heartbreak: Why Love Feels Unsafe -    • Fearful-Avoidant Heartbreak: Why Love Feel...  
Episode 6: How To Deal With Avoidant Friends:
   • How to Deal with Avoidant Attachment in Fr...  
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Whether you’re anxious, avoidant, or somewhere in between, we’re here to help you create the secure love you deserve. 🩵
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🕒 Chapters:
00:00 Intro
02:20 The Origins Of Avoidance: Michael's Early Years
03:25 The Relationship Pattern: The Anxious-Avoidant Trap With Emma
05:17 Important Clarity: Why Emma Couldn't "Fix" Michael
06:15 The Turning Point: Self-Awareness Begins
07:46 Critical Understanding: Why Healing Happened Now
08:57 The Healing Journey: From Avoidance To Security
11:33 The Internal Barriers: What Really Happens Inside
12:26 The Science of Avoidant Attachment
14:02 Let's Get To The Heart Of It
17:11 The Path Forward
18:53 Up Next: Meet Rebecca

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