You Don't Get What You Deserve, You Get What You're Committed To (Step 6.2 | The Whole Soul Way™)

Описание: Ever wonder why you keep repeating the same relationship patterns, even when you desperately desire change? This video explores how our subconscious patterns and hidden commitments often dictate our reality, despite our conscious desires. We'll examine how embracing inner work and a personal development mindset can help you bridge the gap between what your soul longs for and what your human self is truly committed to, leading to more fulfilling relationships.

Your soul might be longing for connection, but your human is committed to safety.

You might want peace, but you're committed to being right.

You might desire connection and closeness, but you're committed to distance.

There's no shame in this—your unconscious commitments are protective, often rooted in trauma, and your inner child's need for safety.

Until you get radically honest about what you're actually committed to (revealed by your results, not your intentions), you'll stay stuck in the exhausting cycle of wanting without receiving.

This lesson teaches you how to see your true commitments, understand why they exist, and make the shift to 100% responsibility: where every action serves what you actually want.

This is how you stop fooling yourself and start creating the relationships and life you're truly committed to.

In this video, you'll learn:

💫 How to identify your unconscious commitments by examining your actual results
💫 Why the thing you want most is often what trauma keeps you from committing to
💫 The difference between soul longing and human readiness—and how to bridge the gap
💫 How to shift from "I want this" to "every action I take serves this commitment"
💫 The empowering truth: what you focus on expands, and your results reveal where you're truly focused

Your results are not failures—they're data showing you what you're actually committed to.

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00:57 The Concept of Commitment vs. Desire
01:06 Personal Example: Emotional Intimacy
01:55 Understanding Self-Commitments
03:58 Facing the Truth About Our Commitments
06:49 Practical Applications and Daily Practices
09:55 Conclusion: The Power of Commitment

This lesson is part of The Whole Soul Way™ Foundational Course, and each lesson builds on the last, so if this is your first time here, you may want to start at the beginning (here's the playlist):    • The Whole Soul Way™ Foundations Course (FR...  

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