Breakups and Getting Back Together: feeling good vs feeling bad? by Clay Andrews

Описание: Today we're going to talk about the pendulum theory and how it relates to getting your ex back.

Pendulum swings back and forth. If you push it goes one way up to a certain distance and then it comes right back an equal distance.

Your emotional state after a breakup is just like a pendulum. If you're open to feeling the sadness and the heart ache from the breakup, you're also open to experiencing the joy and happiness in life.

What happens most of the time is that people try to resist one side of the pendulum. They want to suppress the negative emotions and rush past it.

They only want to feel the happiness and the confidence. When you choke one side it stops you from feeling the other side. If you want to have a passionate relationship with feeling and connection then you have to be open to feeling everything.

Being numb will protect you from the bad feeling, but it will also block your ability to feel the good things.


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Clay Andrews
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