why you lose yourself around men you like (it’s not insecurity)

Описание: why you lose yourself around men you like has nothing to do with confidence, willpower, or being “too much.”
it’s a nervous system survival response, and once you understand it, your entire dating experience can change.


✨ early access hypno-meditation to heal self-abandonment and feel safe being fully yourself in love:
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this deep somatic and subconscious hypno-meditation helps your body release the survival response that makes you shrink, perform, or disappear in connection so you can stay grounded, authentic, and emotionally safe even around someone you really like.



in this video, you’ll learn



• why attraction activates survival mode in the nervous system
• how self-abandonment becomes a learned safety strategy
• why you don’t actually lose yourself, you hide yourself
• how anxious attachment forms around emotional availability
• how to stop shrinking, people pleasing, or over-adapting in love
• a step by step process to rewire emotional memory and feel safe being seen


i share my personal story and walk you through practical tools to identify your unique pattern, normalize being seen, rewire emotional memory, shift your focus, climb the belief ladder, and choose softness over force so connection no longer costs you yourself.


if you feel confident alone but small in connection, this video will explain exactly why and how to change it.



🕒 timestamps



00:00 introduction why you lose yourself in dating
01:20 my personal story breaking the self-abandonment cycle
03:30 what self-abandonment really is
05:53 identifying your nervous system pattern
06:57 normalizing authenticity in connection
08:33 shifting focus and belief rewiring
09:47 choosing softness over force
10:55 the transition phase and why it feels uncomfortable
11:55 rewiring emotional memory
12:59 conclusion staying yourself in love



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