Why She Stopped Wanting to Go Down — And 6 Ways to Change It

Описание: Most men assume she just doesn't enjoy it. Most women wonder why they want to sometimes and absolutely don't other times. The truth is more interesting — and more fixable — than either of them thinks.

In this episode, I break down the psychology and neuroscience behind female desire, and gives you 6 specific, research-backed things you can do to shift the dynamic entirely. This isn't about pressure, persuasion, or performance. It's about understanding how desire actually works — and showing up differently because of it.
In this episode:
*Why most men have been trying to create desire the wrong way (and what actually works)
*The neuroscience of the sexual "brake" — and why removing pressure is more powerful than adding stimulation
*The difference between feeling wanted and feeling chosen — and why it matters
*What the research on couples actually shows about reciprocity and desire
*Why your nervous system is either creating safety or shutting her down — before you've touched her
*The one move most men make the moment she starts responding — and why it kills everything

This episode is for:
✔ Men who want to understand their partner's desire better
✔ Women who've been trying to figure out why their desire feels inconsistent
✔ Anyone who wants a deeper, more connected intimate relationship

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