The Two Fearful Avoidants Dynamic

Описание: The Two FA Dynamic: Best Friends or Mortal Enemies

When two unhealed fearful avoidants fall for each other, it’s intense. I call this dynamic the best friends or mortal enemies relationship.

They love hard, feel deeply, and when conflict strikes—they fight just as fiercely.
Unhealed FAs know how to hit below the belt. Why? Because they’re wired for both anxiety and avoidance—flipping back and forth in any given argument.
One minute one’s chasing, the next they’re pulling away.
Then it reverses.
It’s exhausting. And more often than not, the trust gets broken over and over again.

BUT…
When both partners learn to regulate their nervous systems and find safety within themselves and each other—
Everything changes.
Two healed FAs can experience one of the deepest forms of intimacy because they both crave the same thing:
To be seen, heard, and understood.

The two FA bond can be beautiful and toxic.
But if you’re ready for your relationship to have consistent beauty and peace—
I can teach you how to co-regulate, resolve conflict with care, and build a bond that actually lasts.

I just opened a new May date that will start at 6PM EST. This time period seems to be my most popular so spots usually go quick.

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