How to Set Boundaries and Protect Your Peace During the Holidays

Описание: The holidays are meant to be joyful—but for many, they come with stress, resentment, and emotional exhaustion. In this episode, The Boundary Blues, we explore why boundaries aren’t barriers to connection, but the structure that allows relationships—and people—to thrive.

Drawing from Dr. Henry Cloud’s work on boundaries, this conversation breaks down why healthy limits are a critical form of self-care, especially during high-pressure seasons. We unpack the emotional warning signs that signal a boundary is needed—anger, overwhelm, resentment, fear, and sadness—and explain how unspoken expectations often fuel holiday conflict.

The episode also clarifies the often-confused differences between requests, boundaries, and ultimatums, helping listeners understand where personal responsibility begins and control ends. Finally, we address the hardest question of all: when going “no contact” becomes necessary, including the role of emotional and psychological abuse, accountability, and genuine apology—referencing Oprah’s powerful perspective on protecting your peace.

This is an honest, practical conversation for anyone who wants less tension, clearer communication, and a healthier holiday experience—without guilt.