Ep. 62 – Compared to Others

Описание: We all measure ourselves against others—but are we measuring the right things? The Mesilas Yesharim explores the first level of Zerizus: those completely committed to serving Hashem because it's simply the right thing to do. These individuals reach toward Yiras Cheit, constantly concerned that even the smallest misstep might compromise their service. It's a lofty madreiga, far above where most of us stand. Yet here's the trap: when we see people above us, we call them fanatics; when we see people below us, we call them lacking. Meanwhile, we convince ourselves we're perfectly positioned.


Chazal teach that every person will be "burned by the chuppah of their friend"—not from jealousy, but from recognizing, "I could have been there too." What if the gap between you and greatness isn't talent or background, but simply consistent effort? The gedolim we admire started where you are now. Can you look up without feeling threatened? Can you look down without feeling superior? This episode invites you to see potential instead of comparison, to recognize that your friend's spiritual heights aren't there to shame you—they're there to show you what's possible when you commit.


Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!