A Man's Perspective on Rape & Consent

Описание: Hi all! I usually make sure my videos are not on a solely hetero platform, but these dudes are hetero and so they're talking about hetero situations! PLEASE don't feel like you can't relate! Regardless of which sexual identity you identify with, if you identify with any, please remember that this video can STILL be useful (just disregard the pronouns)!
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What is rape, from a guy's point of view?
Do guys judge girls for not wanting to have sex with them?
What if she says "No" when you're about to have sex?
Are guys pressured to have sex?
Can guys be raped?
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There are SO many questions around sex and what's appropriate vs what isn't appropriate! Here are some cool dudes to share their feelings around sex, assault, consent and more.
For me, it's refreshing to hear what guys think because a lot of the time, I may create the feeling of judgement (whether it's really there or not) when I'm in a sexual situation with my partner. And feeling judged is NOT a fun feeling. BUT, please remember that the feeling of judgement comes from WITHIN; you can either let it affect you, or not. But these guys obviously feel that if a girl speaks her mind, even if a guy will judge her for it, it's SEXY. Ya know why? Because confidence is sexy and saying what you want is SUPER sexy.
So always speak up; always say what you want & don't want. If your partner judges you, that reflects THEIR character, not yours.
And don't just say "Yes" just so you can get them to like you, or so you feel sexy & wanted in that moment! That moment will pass and so will the feeling of being wanted. Here's something to think about - that feeling of wanting to be desired & wanted wont' come from a partner; that feeling is coming up for you because of something you're lacking from within. Maybe you don't feel good enough/worthy enough/pretty/handsome enough, etc. But you won't get it by saying "Yes" when you really mean "No".
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