The Psychology of Oversharing: Why Do You Regret Speaking Too Much?

Описание: Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling a heavy sense of regret? You replay every word, wondering why you shared so much with someone who didn't ask for it. Psychologists call this a "Vulnerability Hangover."

In this video, we explore the deep psychological roots of oversharing. We look beyond social awkwardness to understand how trauma, the "Fawn" response, and a fear of silence drive us to give pieces of ourselves away to people who cannot hold them. You will learn the crucial difference between secrecy and privacy, how to stop using words to regulate your anxiety, and how to build true intimacy slowly, brick by brick.

Timestamps:
00:00 - The feeling of heaviness after a conversation
01:08 - What is a "Vulnerability Hangover"?
01:54 - Why silence feels like abandonment
03:08 - Trying to force intimacy through trauma dumping
04:06 - The "Fawn" Response: Why we people-please
05:11 - The difference between Secrecy and Privacy
06:11 - Using oversharing to regulate anxiety
07:42 - Why oversharing is actually a form of armor
09:20 - How to heal: Becoming a "Sacred Vessel"
10:17 - The birth of boundaries and holding your own gold

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