Dumped for Wanting a Future? Dating & Hope in Your 30s

Описание: If you’ve been told — directly or indirectly — that wanting a future is “too much,” it can leave you feeling rejected, hopeless, and questioning yourself. This is especially common in your 30s, when the pressure to “get it right” can make every dating experience feel heavier and more loaded.

In this video, I talk about why wanting commitment, partnership, and a shared future does not make you needy, desperate, or unreasonable — and how being “discarded” for wanting more is often information, not a failure. We’ll explore how anxious attachment patterns, scarcity thinking, and the fear of running out of time can amplify dating anxiety, and how to reframe these experiences in a way that builds self-trust rather than self-blame.

This conversation is for you if:

You feel hopeless about dating in your 30s
You’ve been told you’re “too much” for wanting a future
You keep ending up in connections that can’t meet you where you are
You’re trying to balance longing for partnership with building a full, meaningful life now

You are not behind. Your desires make sense. And learning to walk away from what isn’t aligned is often the very thing that brings you closer to what you want.