Quiet Disorganized Women Aren’t Broken — They Just Never Felt Safe | Adam Lane Smith

Описание: Many high-achieving women feel like they’re falling apart inside, despite appearing successful and composed on the outside. In this powerful talk, Adam unpacks the hidden trauma behind quiet disorganized attachment — and explains why these women aren’t broken, they’ve just never truly felt safe.

Topics Covered:
👉 What “quiet disorganized” attachment looks like in women
👉 The childhood roots of emotional suppression and hyper-independence
👉 How high performance masks deep internal chaos
👉 The neurobiology behind attachment trauma (HPA axis, oxytocin, vagus nerve, etc.)
👉 Why success can feel hollow without emotional safety
👉 How disorganized attachment affects relationships and self-worth
👉 The trap of caretaking and attracting boundary-less partners
👉 Why relaxation feels unsafe for some trauma survivors
👉 A science-based path toward healing and true connection

If this resonated with you, don’t stay silent. There’s nothing wrong with you — and healing is possible. For more on trauma, attachment, and recovery.

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Chapters:
00:00:00 Understanding Impostor Syndrome and Disorganized Attachment
00:02:58 Neurobiology of Disorganized Attachment and Childhood Trauma
00:05:52 The Cost of Suppressing Emotions in Adulthood
00:08:46 The Achievement Paradox in High Achieving Women
00:11:23 The Achievement Trap: Why Success Doesn’t Equal Satisfaction
00:14:07 Understanding Disorganized Attachment Patterns
00:16:54 Overcoming Relaxation Anxiety through Somatic Techniques
00:19:52 Navigating Longing in Romantic Relationships
00:22:50 Understanding and Challenging Relationship Patterns
00:25:32 Identifying and Addressing Personal Needs
00:28:11 Building Positive Connections through Oxytocin and Feedback
00:30:50 Building Secure Relationships for Personal Growth