Polyamory Does NOT Excuse Poor Behavior | Accountability, Consent, and Ethical Non-Monogamy

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Being polyamorous does not make someone more ethical, more evolved, or immune from accountability.

In this episode of Untamed Ember, Dr. Misty breaks down a hard truth many polyamory spaces avoid, non-monogamy does not excuse neglect, dishonesty, coercion, or harm. Polyamory is a relationship structure, not a moral upgrade.

This episode explores how polyamory language is often weaponized to shut down feedback, avoid repair, and reframe harmful behavior as “growth,” “autonomy,” or “just jealousy.” If you have ever been told that your discomfort means you are insecure, controlling, or not evolved enough for polyamory, this conversation is for you.

Topics covered include:
• Why polyamory ethics require more accountability than monogamy, not less
• How neglect gets reframed as autonomy in non-monogamous relationships
• The difference between privacy and withholding consent-relevant information
• How “personal growth” language can become a tool of coercion
• Why consent requires information, not surprise
• Repair that centers impact rather than intent
• What ethical polyamory actually looks like in practice

This episode is grounded in sex therapy, consent culture, relational ethics, and real-world polyamory dynamics. No moralizing, no spiritual bypassing, and no relationship structure worship.

If you care about ethical non-monogamy, informed consent, repair after harm, and relationships that actually feel safe, this episode will give you language you may have been missing.

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