DROP IT BEFORE 2026

Описание: I snapped at my husband over something small. And what came out of my mouth showed me a pattern I'd been running for years.

"I know we joke that you guys can all just access my brain — the family cloud — but I'm exhausted. I'm out of bandwidth."

Before you set a single goal for 2026, you need to see what patterns you're dragging with you.

IN THIS EPISODE:
• The moment I realized I'd made myself "the family cloud" — and what it cost me
• Pattern #1: Hyper-Independence — why "if you want it done right, do it yourself" is keeping you stuck
• Pattern #2: Conditional Permission — the "once/then" trap that keeps moving the goalpost
• Pattern #3: Time Scarcity — why it's not ambition, it's self-abandonment
• The questions that help you work WITH patterns (without adding them to your to-do list)

QUOTABLE:
"Hyper-Independence is dangerous because it works."
"It's not ambition. It's self-abandonment."
"You cannot change what you refuse to look at."
"2026 will give you exactly what you allow."

CONNECT WITH ANIK:
🌐 Website: https://masteringascension.com/coaching/
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Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction: The Pattern That Changed Everything
0:32 - Before You Set Goals for 2026
0:44 - The Kitchen Incident: When I Snapped
2:18 - The Invisible Load: Family & Business Cloud
3:18 - Recognizing the Pattern of Being "Indispensable"
4:10 - The Three Patterns High Achievers Carry
4:42 - Pattern #1: Hyper Independence
6:42 - The Seven-Figure Business Owner Who Couldn't Let Go
7:32 - Pattern #2: Conditional Permission
9:42 - The Moving Goalpost Problem
10:32 - You'll Never Feel Like You've Earned It
11:12 - Quick Ask: Leave a Review
11:32 - Pattern #3: Time Scarcity
13:02 - The 60-Second Celebration Problem
13:52 - What If You're Not Behind?
14:22 - Understanding Your Patterns
15:32 - Patterns Are Old Survival Strategies
16:12 - Your Invitation: Just Notice
17:12 - The Your Breakthrough Blueprint Quiz
18:12 - What 2026 Will Give You
19:02 - Challenge: Name Your Pattern
19:32 - Next Week: Matea Lenings Interview

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