STOP Wasting Time on People Who Don't DESERVE You

Описание: Have you ever completely sacrificed yourself for someone who never asked for your help? Have you ever given up your dreams so as not to seem arrogant? Have you ever destroyed yourself trying to save someone who doesn't want to be saved?

In this video, I tell the story of Peyton - a 22-year-old who spent years trying to save everyone around him: his girlfriend, his friends, his family. Until the day he discovered a Japanese proverb that changed everything: Neko ni Koban - "gold coins for a cat".

Concepts covered:

Neko ni Koban - Why waste something precious on someone who can't appreciate it?
Ma - The wisdom of knowing when to step back and give space.
Mottainai - The waste of your vital energy.

Emotional codependency and the savior complex.
How to create healthy boundaries without guilt.

This is not a story about abandoning people. It's about understanding that you can't want more of someone's life than that person wants for themselves. It's about learning that protecting your energy isn't selfishness - it's wisdom.

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