How to Influence People

Описание: Aditi’s Confession: I Used to Be Socially Awkward!!!!

Hi, I’m Aditi - and honestly, I used to be that girl who rehearsed every text, panicked during small talk, and overthought the tiniest social moments. If someone said “Let’s mingle,” I wanted to disappear immediately. If that sounds like you… trust me, you’re not alone.

Then one day, I picked up How to Win Friends & Influence People. Yes, the super old book everyone keeps recommending. And somehow, it didn’t feel old at all. It felt like someone finally broke down human behavior in the simplest, kindest way. Nothing fake, nothing manipulative - just habits that make people feel understood.

Once I started applying the tips, everything shifted. Conversations felt lighter, networking didn’t scare me anymore, and talking to professors or bosses suddenly felt normal instead of terrifying.

In this video, I’m sharing the five habits that helped me stop feeling awkward and start becoming someone people genuinely enjoy being around.

✨ What’s inside:
1. The Zero-Complaint Rule: difficult but life-changing
2. Stop Trying to Be Interesting: the real way to become a great conversationalist
3. The Argument Detox: why “winning” rarely helps
4. The Name Trick: a tiny habit that makes people feel seen
5. Giving Feedback Kindly: how to be honest without hurting anyone

If you’re ready to glow up socially in a calm, effortless, genuinely warm way, this guide will help you so much.

Which rule are you trying today? Drop a comment below and tell me if you're taking on the 24-Hour No Complaint Challenge!! promise it changes everything!

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