Do you think we should plan intimacy in relationship?

Описание: ‪@MauroDaviddiPerth‬

Do you think we should plan, especially in moment where there's kids around, maybe a newborn, and we should actually schedule intimacy and relationship? Because some people will say, well, know, sex should be spontaneous. Otherwise, there's no real intimacy,.?

‪@raffibtc2184‬
Th0s people are not being real because those same people who say it should be spontaneous also remember when they were in college and they had a date with their girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever, and everybody knew what the plan was. It's not like they went out for dinner and then they went back to the room or the dorm or whatever it is and they're like, oh, what a surprise. Yeah, sure, it's spontaneous. No, we all knew what the plan was. Right, that's actually how it happens most of the time.

So it's great if in your marriage there are times where you can be like, hey, you know what, let's go for it. Great, super. But to suggest that planning it is not romantic or real, I just don't think that's how even we were before, let alone how we are now.