Perfectionism Isn’t Ambition — It’s Anxiety (Here’s Why You Never Feel Safe)

Описание: If you’re high-achieving, exhausted, and still never feel safe, this video will show you why perfectionism isn’t ambition (hint: it’s survival) and how it’s keeping your nervous system stuck.

This is for women who look put-together on the outside but feel tense, hypervigilant, and never fully at peace inside.

Perfectionism doesn’t come from discipline or drive. It comes from conditional love, inconsistent approval, and a nervous system that learned performance = safety.

In this video, Angie Hawkins, Inner Glow Coach, breaks down:

• Why perfectionism never delivers relief
• How fear-based standards keep moving
• Why rest, joy, and presence feel unsafe
• How self-trust (not self-pressure) creates real high standards

If you’re constantly raising the bar, bracing for the other shoe to drop, or unable to enjoy success, then this isn’t because you’re broken.

It’s because your nervous system learned to survive.

In This Video You Will Learn:

✅ Why perfectionism is a trauma-based survival strategy, not ambition
✅ How conditional love creates impossible internal standards
✅ Why success, praise, and achievement never feel satisfying
✅ The difference between true high standards vs. self-punishment
✅ A powerful question to interrupt your inner critic in real time
✅ How to stop outsourcing your worth to external validation

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✨ Angie Hawkins is the Inner Glow Coach:

I help high-achieving women stop abandoning themselves, regulate their nervous systems, and build confidence that doesn’t require perfection, performance, or external approval.

This work isn’t about fixing you (because there is nothing wrong with you). It’s about feeling free to finally feel safe to be you.

https://www.innerglowbyangie.com/

✨ FREE 60-Minute Find Your Glow Session (Limited Spots) ✨

Each month, I offer 5 free 1:1 sessions for women who are done surviving, done people-pleasing, and ready to feel safe, confident, and fully themselves again.

This is not a coaching pitch call.

Together we identify:
• Where you’re abandoning yourself
• Why your nervous system is stuck in survival mode
• What’s blocking your confidence and inner glow
• How to uplevel without burning out

If you’ve done the therapy, read the books, and still feel like something’s missing, then this session is for you.

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