My Wife Never Said She Won't Have Sex When We Are Married | Question To TMF Marriage Counselors #5

Описание: I am a male in a long-term sexless marriage. Our marriage didn't go bad, it never started in the first place...that is, from a sex standpoint it went bad on our honeymoon night. We don't know why my wife is an asexual with a serious sex aversion since relationship problems and past sexual trauma have been ruled out. It appears my marriage will not be able to meet my sexual needs. So my question is: what healthy way should I meet my sexual needs when I cannot turn to my marriage?

Randal

I think you mean moral, rather than healthy. We cannot give advice on this based on our principles. We don’t agree that one of the partners has the moral right to hold off sharing this preference until after the marriage confirmed at the alter. However, I think Paul would agree that your marriage was never consummated in the first place and so you have every right to terminate the marriage. We also know that there are marriages that do not have sex, even marriages where there are children where the couple only used sex for that purpose, but it was by agreement, not imposition from one.


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