Psychology of a Person Who Can't Commit

Описание: They like you. They care about you. But the moment things get serious, they pull away. "I'm not ready." "I need space." "Let's keep it casual." Some people run the second a relationship asks for commitment. It's not about you—there's deep psychology behind people who can't commit, and it reveals fear, trauma, and emotional patterns that keep them perpetually one foot out the door.

This video explores the real reasons why some people can't commit to relationships. From avoidant attachment and fear of losing independence to childhood abandonment wounds and terror of vulnerability, commitment-phobes aren't heartless—they're often terrified. Discover how early experiences with inconsistent love create adults who equate closeness with inevitable pain, why some people believe commitment means losing themselves, and how the fear of being trapped overrides the desire for connection.

Learn about the psychology of keeping options open as a safety mechanism, how past betrayals make promises feel like lies waiting to happen, why some people sabotage good things before they can be abandoned, and the difference between genuine incompatibility and fear-based running. Understand how perfectionism creates impossible standards that justify never choosing, why intimacy triggers panic in avoidant types, and what happens when freedom feels more important than love.

Key topics covered:
Avoidant attachment and fear of closeness
Childhood abandonment and inconsistent love
Fear of losing independence and being trapped
Past betrayals and trust issues
Self-sabotage to avoid potential pain
Keeping options open as protection
Intimacy triggering panic and withdrawal
Perfectionism and fear of wrong choice

If you struggle with commitment or know someone who does, this video reveals the hidden psychology behind the inability to stay—and why sometimes the people who run aren't running from you, but from the terrifying possibility of actually being loved.

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