Why You Keep Choosing The Same Person (Different Face)

Описание: Most relationship advice misses the point entirely.

Your pattern of choosing the wrong person is programming you picked up before you could choose it.

In this video, I break down the discovery that took me 20 years to fully understand: your relationship patterns are made of exactly two things; skills you learned and experiences you had. Which means they can be changed. Not managed. Not coped with. Actually transformed.

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→ Why "chemistry" keeps pulling you toward dysfunction
→ The two types of chaos most therapists completely miss
→ The brain science behind why you can't think your way out of relationship problems
→ Real transformations from people who thought they were broken
→ What you can do right now to stop reinforcing the old patterns

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