Home vs Assisted Living for Dementia: How to Decide Without Caregiver Burnout

Описание: Should I move my mom to a nursing home? Is it time for assisted living for my dad?
If you’re wrestling with this decision, you’re not alone—and there isn’t a simple yes/no answer. In this video, I share a family-driven framework I use in clinic to help caregivers think through when home care is still sustainable vs when a transition to assisted living or memory care may be safer and healthier for everyone.

You’ll learn how to evaluate:

Family structure & support (who can realistically help, and how often)

Resources you can bring into the home (caregivers, respite, community supports)

Caregiver health & burnout (sleep, medical needs, emotional/relationship strain, finances)

Your loved one’s symptom profile (agitation, hallucinations, delusions, sundowning, wandering, safety risks)

Safety incidents that may signal you need more support (falls, wandering, aggression, medication errors)

Why it can help to explore facilities early (waitlists can be long, and planning reduces crisis decisions)

This is a deeply personal choice—my goal is to reduce guilt, protect caregiver health, and help you make a decision you can live with, one step at a time.

✅ If you’re a caregiver: please remember—you matter too. A safer plan for your loved one often starts with a healthier, supported caregiver.

Important disclaimers:

This video is for education only and does not provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. I can’t give individual medical guidance over YouTube. For personal recommendations, please speak with your clinician/neurologist/primary care team.
If there is immediate danger (severe aggression, wandering with risk of harm, suicidal thoughts, unsafe living conditions), call your local emergency number (911 in the U.S.) or seek urgent medical help.


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