3 Main Reasons Why Couples Grow Apart

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3 REASONS WHY COUPLES GROW APART

1. Boredom: It’s easy to fall into the rut of habit, of soul-numbing boredom and mundane routine. But if we want to avoid that, it’s up to us to change it. No outside force is going to do it for us. We shouldn’t be sitting around waiting for a fairy godmother to wave her wand. We have a tendency to indulge in magical thinking and assume that some external factor will prompt change, spice up our routine or show us the way. This is fallacious reasoning. Change is up to us.

2. Stressors: No one’s life is without challenges, some big and some small. The accepted wisdom is that buying a new house and/or remodelling an old one is one of life’s greatest stresses on a marriage. This calls for a reality check, a refreshing of our perspective. If we are in this position, we are lucky and privileged and we should appreciate it and not fight with our spouse. It’s easy to snap at our mate when we are feeling pressured; it’s just silly to let this exciting opportunity become a source of tension.

3. Separate Lives: Like the other issues here, growing apart is not imposed upon us by some mysterious outside force; we allow it to happen to us. We need to be proactive. We need to set aside regular time (daily time, date night) to check-in. And we need to be interested. If one spouse or the other spends too much time at their job, paid or even volunteer, you need to call them on it. You need to let them know if you feel neglected if you think their priorities are confused. Keep the issues current and don’t relax.

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