離婚：閃婚後我從未說過的秘密MY SECRETS OF FLASH DIVORCE

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艾兒莎臉亮亮的秘密，來自自創MIT漢方品牌 #苒苒✨
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艾兒莎鼓起勇氣要來詳細分享當年不顧一切幾天內就決定閃婚，而且還沒有跟對方發生過任何成人的事 lol 就真的直接結～這個閃婚的決定當然也導致後面可預期的，閃離。這過程中，我因為哪些焦慮，哪些對自己的否定和不自信，而讓我產生一系列錯誤抉擇呢？

這過程雖然不是非常光彩，但我很希望透過自己在婚姻失敗的這一遭，跟大家分享說「絕對不要有年齡焦慮」「結婚不是為一個靠岸方案」。

千錯萬錯，事實上自己的人生都該自己負起責任，我的黑暗、情緒化、沒認清自我的狀態，確實就是會做出錯的決定，最後反撲到自己身上，也只是正常而已。

不知道大家是否像我一樣曾經有30歲的焦慮，曾經對感情和婚姻迷惘茫然，也歡迎跟我分享～

I mustered up the courage to share in detail about how, disregarding everything, I made the impulsive decision to get flash marriage within a few days, without even having engaged in any intimate activities with my partner. Haha, we just went ahead and got married directly. Of course, this impulsive decision of marriage eventually led to the expected outcome of separation. During this process, my anxieties, self-doubt, and lack of confidence played a part in a series of wrong choices.

Though this journey may not be a shining moment, I truly hope to share with everyone, through my failed marriage, that "you should never have age anxiety" and "marriage is not a fallback plan."

No matter how many mistakes I made, I firmly believe that we should take responsibility for our own lives and learn from it. My dark moments, emotional instability, and lack of self-awareness undoubtedly led me to make wrong decisions that eventually backfired on myself, but that's just part of life.

I wonder if anyone else has experienced the same anxieties at the age of 30, and if anyone has ever felt lost and confused about relationships and marriage. I welcome you to share your stories with me.


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| 影片章節 |
00:00 精彩預告
00:25 開場
02:11 決定閃婚的起因
04:56 開始失速
07:13 發現不合原因
10:29 決定結束
14:00 第一個覺悟: 放下對於年齡的焦慮
15:25 第二個覺悟: 結婚不是人生唯一答案
17:56 第三個覺悟: 對自己誠實愛自己
21:58 總結