Things I’ve learned about love, beauty, and becoming  (I mention my crush / situationship too )

Описание: Today I felt light -and I wanted to speak from that place.

This video isn’t advice or a manifesto. It’s a quiet reflection on the things that became clear once my nervous system calmed down: what love actually feels like, why beauty is coherence rather than perfection, and how becoming yourself is often a process of subtraction rather than addition.

I talk about safety versus intensity, softness as discernment, and why real confidence is settled rather than loud - with a little psychology and neuroscience woven in where it helps, and silence where it doesn’t.

If you’re in a season of becoming, I hope this feels like sitting in good company rather than being taught anything.

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#Becoming
#SoftWisdom
#FeminineIntelligence
#HealingJourney
#NervousSystem
#EmotionalMaturity
#SecureAttachment
#QuietConfidence
#ModernWoman
#InnerAlignment
#RomanticiseYourLife

The split that recently happened between Desmond and Kristy Sarah is mentioned as an example of why we should take romanticising content we consume with a pinch of salt. But she did something great which was leave when he cheated! So many stay trying to make it work when it likely won’t.

00:00 - 00:38 Intro, OOTD and happy sun
00:39 - 01:38 what I've learned about love and becoming
01:39 - 10:01 Love is not intensity, it's safety (mention my old crush here too ;))
10:02 - 11:45 Beauty is coherence not perfection
11:46 - 13:39 Healing doesn't make you louder, it makes you quieter
13:40 - 15:52 Confidence is not convincing - it's settledness
15:53 - 17:30 Becoming is subtraction, not addition
17:31 - 19:00 Closing reflections