We Didn't Fall Apart Because of Betrayal | It Was a Thousand Tiny Moments

Описание: We didn't fall apart because of betrayal. We fell apart because of a thousand tiny moments.

*NO*
→ Affair
→ Addiction
→ Abuse
→ Big betrayal

*JUST*
→ A thousand tiny moments
→ Where we chose everything else
→ Over each other

*MY CHOICES*

→ Phone over listening to his day
→ "Too tired" over dates
→ Practicality over possibility
→ Every. Single. Time.

*HIS CHOICES*

→ Protecting me from worries (instead of letting me in)
→ Stopping trying (instead of fighting for us)
→ Writing letters (instead of uncomfortable conversations)

*WE BOTH CHOSE*

→ Comfort over connection
→ Routine over romance
→ Coasting over climbing
→ Easy over effort

*AND WE LOST EACH OTHER*

Long before he died.

*THE TRUTH*

*Most marriages don't end in EXPLOSIONS.*

*They end in a thousand WHISPERS*

→ "Not tonight"
→ "Maybe later"
→ "I'm too tired"
→ "Not now"

*A THOUSAND TINY "NOs"*

→ No to connection
→ No to vulnerability
→ No to effort
→ No to US

*UNTIL ONE DAY*

You're roommates.

Strangers.

Living parallel lives.

*DON'T MAKE OUR MISTAKE.*

*TODAY*

→ Put down the phone
→ Say YES to the date
→ Choose possibility over practicality
→ Have the uncomfortable conversation
→ CHOOSE EACH OTHER

*NOW.*

Not later.

Not when timing's right.

*NOW.*

Because "later" might not come.

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