【Grayscale グレーの濃淡（グラデーション）】

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「The world was beautiful to me
　Because a flower called you was in bloom🌹
　
　The world felt somehow interesting
　Because a mind like yours filled every room📘
　
　The world looked flooded with love
　Because your heart became its spring..💔」

In beautiful, slow-motion imagery reminiscent of French cinema, set in Paris🇫🇷, I recall a sad love that never came to fruition.

According to psychologist Carl Jung's theory, people fall in love with those who project their own shadow. While it appears they are in love with that person, they are actually drawn to someone who possesses what they themselves lack—that is, the self they have yet to become—and mistake this attraction for love. Humans are eternally drawn to those who possess what they themselves lack. Mistaking this for love, they draw too close and get hurt. This recurring psychological shadow trauma phenomenon is the result of an individual failing to integrate their own shadow within themselves.

Therefore, when you suffer in your relationships with others, look inward at yourself. Ask what you were hoping for from that person. And more often than not, it stems from your own wounds. Unless you acknowledge the wounds you don't want to admit to yourself and reflect on what you constantly demand from others, you will repeat the same patterns forever, driven by your own sense of lack. But that will only exhaust your heart.

Recognize the lack you once demanded from others, acknowledge the vulnerability born from that lack, and heal your own pain through your own strength—beginning with self-compassion. In the process of self-compassion, fully indulge in what you love until your heart is content. Build confidence that you can live joyfully through your passions (choose constructive self-cultivation like culture, art, creation, or music). This is the path to self-integration.

Acknowledge your wounds, heal them, and clearly understand what you love—then you will surely find a new path. Fill the void left by others with constructive self-discipline, and for now, just keep moving forward. Even on a path where you don't know what lies ahead, it's important to dive in and experience it. While eliminating distractions, continue integrating what you still love and what remains. That will become your strength.

The woman appearing in this music video seems somewhat mysterious, but that's only because she knows the above. She is someone for whom romance isn't everything in life. She doesn't use romance as a yardstick to measure herself. Because romance is an act of substituting another person to fill one's own lack.

People who try to fill their own deficiencies with others lack self-understanding. They repeatedly seek to resolve their lack outside themselves, falling into shallow relationships over and over. However, those who can fulfill themselves see only self-growth, so they have no hesitation. This leads to repeated swift decisions, allowing their minds to focus entirely on self-improvement. Reaching this state means they have no self-doubt, accelerating their decision-making speed. Within relationships that flow naturally like scenery passing by a train window, they can instantly decide for themselves which station to disembark at and where to transfer to another train. That is life's ultimate goal. While showing consideration for others and offering hints to those they encounter along the way, they never cling to any relationship. There's no need to. They simply follow their own path. That's all. I believe this is what the sages meant when they all left behind the saying for posterity: “Life is a journey.”

In a world where love can be conceived so beautifully, those who still choose their own path without believing love is everything, who seek their own true life, and who freely choose what suits them are beautiful. Parting is always lonely for everyone, but there is no past that holds your correct answer. The path always lies only before you. Cast off your suffering and your past self, and move forward cleanly onto the next path. Your happiness has never been found in the past. And remember: while you cannot change another person's life, the only person you can ever change is yourself.


日本語の説明は、noteから（字数が収まらない為🙏）
https://note.com/lx6hp/n/n2a77a14a0da3