How NON-Resistance Can Stop a Narcissist!

Описание: Are you in a custody battle with a narcissist?
Required to co-parent with your narcissistic ex?
Is there a way to co-exist (in peace?)

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Today's Survivor-Wisdom Tip:
How does non-resistance STOP the narcissist?*
Answer: (There is no more fuel/fight.)
KEY: The use of non-resistance can spare us some sanity.
If you are in a push/pull battle or a tug-of-war with a narcissistic ex, (over the care of children), while getting exhausted and drained...
it may be time to deploy peace-promoting strategies to save your sanity.
In my case, I finally got to the point of surrender. Just to be clear, NOT defeat but an “energetic and emotional surrender “of the fight that the narcissist enjoyed and was energized by.
What we both knew about me:
I didn’t want a family court custody battle.
I didn’t want war.
But the moment I stopped looking at this as personal (or taking it personally)…
The moment I realized (like my sponsor said), that HE was taking HIMSELF to court…
I turned my energy to:
“Ok. Go ahead, use the court to beat me, fine… but that will only hurt you.”
Q: What happened? How did I get the court battle to end? (with more custody and child support?)
A: I changed:
-I didn’t complain about unfairness to me, anymore.
-I didn’t complain about how much it cost me, anymore.
-I began to only speak the language that a narcissist CARES about (and understands). Him.

How it affects him. (Good or bad)
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Why and how non-resistance hurts the narcissist?
Because when we side-step his attack, he crashes into a few walls.
NOTE: Narcissists are fully capable of self-sabotaging themselves, too.

I hope this helps point you to a path of possible peace.
May you learn, heal, & outgrow the narcissist!

Grace W. Wroldson (host of this group, mom, surthriver, author, coach)
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Wisdom for Ending the Co-Parenting War & a Custody Battle with a Narcissist:
So You Can Heal and Be Able to Help Your Child
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*DISCLAIMER:
Thank you for reading! Disclaimer: I’m not a therapist or licensed professional. I’m not an attorney. This is not legal or therapeutic advice. I am like you, a mom-survivor. I share opinions, personal research, and hope for a better future. The articles and books (and free videos) that I write are for awareness/educational purposes only—not intended to be a substitute for medical, clinical, legal, or professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Please seek the advice of a licensed mental health professional, attorney, or other qualified provider for your custody case. Each custody case and family situation is different and needs a tailored approach with strategies that are specific to the issues you face and the phase you are in. I encourage you to establish support. Getting help is a sign of strength—not weakness.

May you learn, heal, & outgrow the narcissist!

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