Feminist Indoctrination: The Matrix Men Live

Описание: I haven’t had an intimate relationship in four years. Not because I stopped wanting connection, but because I learned to associate desire with risk. I watch a culture that speaks endlessly about liberation and sexual freedom, while my own experience has been one of caution, silence, and retreat. When a man responds to constant scrutiny not with aggression but with disappearance, it forces a difficult question: when punishment happens before action, who exactly is being protected — and who is being erased?

I say dating as a 39 year old, as someone who hasn't been on a date in 4 years, as someone who never got a match on Tinder to meet him in real life, as someone who has struggled with long term lack of affection, as someone sick and tired of women wining and complaining about how privileged men are, when they literally have endless options and view men as disposable.

What does dating actually feel like for a 39 year old guy in today’s social climate?

In this video, I reflect on my experience as a single man living in a youth-heavy European city and trying to navigate modern dating norms shaped by feminist discourse, social media narratives, and public moral signaling.

This is not an attack on women, and it’s not a rejection of feminism’s core goals around safety and equality. It’s an attempt to name a quieter reality: the background assumptions, suspicions, and self-censorship many men experience but rarely articulate, leading them to call it quits on trying to date, and retreating into video games and lonely pursuits.

I talk about how certain feminist ideas—originally meant as protections—can harden into simplified social rules, creating what feels like a “matrix” of expectations and invisible boundaries, and I go in depth how this matrix was designed by social media corporations, who use algorithms to create the beehive set of concepts and ideas that are generally accepted.

I discuss how women are too scared and risk averse to speak their personal truth, and just yap out the feminist dogma they hear on their smartphone, for fear of social punishment.

I discuss how many leftist males ignore the truth of their mind, and do not speak their mind, as a sexual strategy, to avoid getting punished for thinking differently from the feminist norm.

In small cities especially, where visibility is high and age gaps are more noticeable, this can lead men to constantly monitor themselves, not out of guilt, but out of fear of misinterpretation.

This video explores:
– How dating norms have shifted for men over 35–40
– The difference between public discourse and private behavior
– Why intent often matters less than category
– How small, youth-dominated cities intensify moral scrutiny
– And how men can live inside this climate without shrinking themselves

The goal here isn’t provocation. It’s clarity.
If you’ve felt this tension but struggled to put words to it, this conversation is for you.

Thoughtful comments are welcome.
This is about understanding the system—not blaming individuals.

0:00 Introduction – four years without intimacy and why this conversation matters
1:30 Why Thessaloniki is a youth-heavy city and how that shapes dating
3:00 Age-gap relationships and modern moral scrutiny
3:45 Why older men are uniquely disempowered in today’s dating climate
4:30 Historical perspective on age-gap relationships (without nostalgia)
5:15 Emotional effects on men: visibility, fear, and withdrawal
6:00 How silence becomes the rational response
6:40 The role of social narratives and moral conditioning
7:20 Why small cities intensify scrutiny more than large ones
8:00 Thessaloniki vs larger cities (Athens, Bologna, Berlin)
8:45 How constant noise shuts older men down
9:20 Gen Z, smartphones, and moral conformity
10:00 How social media constructs a shared “matrix” of opinion
10:45 Why dissent feels personally risky
11:20 Corporate platforms and algorithmic groupthink
11:55 Reward and punishment in modern discourse
12:30 How simplified ideas harden into default assumptions
13:10 Why intent matters less than category
13:45 Pre-existing scripts and male self-censorship
14:20 Emotional shutdown and retreat into isolation
14:55 Why a few real abuses lead to broad generalizations
15:30 Safety logic vs fairness logic
16:05 How this climate reshapes male behavior
16:40 Why this isn’t about blaming women
17:15 The cost of permanent suspicion
17:45 What kind of society produces silence instead of connection
18:15 Closing reflection: where dignity and ease are still possible