Architecture of the in-between

Описание: This video explores something I’ve been trying to articulate my entire life —
the space autistic people live in that doesn’t fit into the world’s black-and-white categories.

People often assume that speech = capability.
That silence = helplessness.
That “high functioning” means “fine,” and “low functioning” means “hopeless.”

But reality isn’t divided like that.

This video introduces The Architecture of the In-Between —
the lived space where many autistic people exist, navigating internal struggle while being perceived only through external ability.

Not all autistic people experience autism the same way.
But our struggles are not opposites — they are reflections of the same structure from different vantage points.

Key ideas in this video:
• Why “functioning labels” distort reality
• The internal world many autistic adults live in
• Why parents and autistic adults often misunderstand each other
• How perception shapes judgment
• Why visual ability ≠ capability
• How lived experience forms the “space without echo”
• Why forward motion matters more than validation

This isn’t about being right.
This isn’t about changing minds.
It’s about widening the frame so more people can finally see the Gray —
the space between the extremes, where the real experience lives.

If this reaches even one person who needs it, that ripple is enough.

Thank you for watching, and for being here.