Why Ex Girlfriends Seem To Come Back After You Move On

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Interesting Trend We Noticed:
Exes seem to come back only after you've moved on.

Moved On = Getting over them completely, literally moving on to someone else.

Attachment Style Theory might help explain this concept.

Considering The Breakup From The Dumpers Perspective:

Anxious Attachment behaviors turn people off.

Begging
Pleading
Seeking Constant Validation
Posessiveness

So, when you exhibit more secure behaviors you become attractive again.

The Avoidant Aspect:

The first thing you need to understand is that Avoidant types have a tendency to romanticize past lovers or idealize yet-to-be-found future lovers, as both concepts keep true vulnerability at a safe distance.

By moving on you play directly into this concept.

Grass Is Greener Syndrome Concept

Opportunity Cost:

"the loss of potential gain from other alternatives when one alternative is chosen."

Regret comes into play with opportunity cost if you're doing things right. Sometimes people realize too late that they made a dreadful mistake, that they’d taken you for granted.