Difficult Relationships | Parsha with the Chief: Vayeishev

Описание: Difficult relationships are woven into so many social dynamics - within family, friendship, community and society - causing tension, conflict and pain.

But can these relationships be repaired? Can resentments and divisions be overcome?

In this talk on the Parsha of Vayeishev, Chief Rabbi Dr Warren Goldstein explores the roots of conflict through the story of Yosef and his brothers. Drawing on Pirkei Avot and the classical commentaries, the Chief explains that conflict does not begin with an event. It begins within us: in jealousy, ego, resentment, competitiveness, the desire to be noticed, the need to be right.

Our Sages teach that the path to peace begins with inner work: learning to see others with generosity, patience, and compassion; recognising the image of God in every person; and mastering the emotional impulses that push us toward anger or division. Peace is not avoidance. It is spiritual strength. It is the courage to rise above instinct and choose connection.

Key Insights
• Conflict begins inside us, before it ever appears between us.
• The story of Yosef and his brothers reveals how jealousy, ego, and resentment distort how we see one another.
• Pirkei Avot teaches that peace is built through inner work, not external control.
• Seeing the image of God in others changes how we relate, respond, and repair.
• Peace requires emotional mastery and the courage to rise above instinct.
• The Torah’s model of peace begins with responsibility: I must work on me.
• Healing relationships begins with the heart, not the argument.