Stop Keeping Score: Power & Fairness With Money Ft. Heather and Doug Boneparth

Описание: Money talks fall apart when couples keep score. In this episode, Heather and Doug Boneparth show how fairness—not 50/50—actually works in real life, and how power shows up through invisible labor, access, and decision rights.

You’ll hear practical ways to reset the dynamic so conversations feel collaborative instead of adversarial.

Watch now and learn:

► A fairness framework to replace 50/50 splits and tit-for-tat bean counting
► How to surface invisible labor and shift from “tell me what to do” to true task ownership
► The anatomy of a money date (time/place, start with wins, then goals → cash flow → net worth)
► Reconciling different risk appetites by agreeing on shared capacity, timelines, and one step outside each comfort zone

Visit www.TheLongTermInvestor.com for show notes, free resources, and a place to submit questions.

TIMESTAMPS 📚
00:00 Introduction
02:45 Fairness vs. Equality in Couples’ Finances
11:24 Resentment Red Flags in Relationships
13:47 Invisible Labor to Task Ownership
18:26 Financial Transparency for Couples
21:49 Money Dates That Don’t Derail
26:48 Different Risk Tolerances in a Relationship
31:00 Co-Authoring Money Together
33:32 Lightning Round for Couples

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