Setting Boundaries with an Ex: How to Keep the Peace in Your Blended Family

Описание: Have you ever felt like no matter how clear you make your boundaries, your ex just won’t respect them?


Co-parenting in a blended family can be tough—especially when an ex constantly oversteps, ignores agreements, or stirs up conflict. In this episode of Blended by Design, Daun and Travis Hall dive deep into the challenges of setting and enforcing boundaries with an ex while protecting the peace in your home.


Through personal stories and hard-learned lessons, they share what’s worked (and what hasn’t) in their own blended family journey. From the emotional toll of constant boundary violations to practical ways to hold your ground, this episode is packed with real-life insights and actionable strategies for navigating co-parenting challenges.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• Why Boundaries Feel Impossible in Blended Families – The emotional, legal, and relational reasons that make co-parenting boundaries so tough to maintain.
• How to Enforce Boundaries When Your Ex Won’t Cooperate – What to do when agreements aren’t honored, and how to respond with strength and clarity.
• Recognizing When to Hold Firm and When to Let Go – Not every battle is worth fighting. Learn how to choose what’s truly important.
• Supporting Your Spouse Through Co-Parenting Conflicts – How to be a strong team when an ex is making things difficult.
• Practical Tools for Managing Toxic Communication – Text, email, and third-party apps that can help reduce conflict and create accountability.
Real-Life Stories:

• Travis’s Experience: The constant pushback from his ex, how he handled it, and what finally worked to regain peace in his home.
• Daun’s Perspective: Why boundaries worked differently in her co-parenting relationship and the surprising lessons she’s learned from both sides of the experience.
• The Emotional Toll of Boundary Violations: From feeling powerless to reclaiming control—how enforcing limits changed the dynamic in their blended family.
Key Takeaways:

• Boundaries Are for You, Not for Them – You can’t control how an ex behaves, but you can control how you respond.
• Legal Agreements Only Work If You Enforce Them – When to document, when to escalate, and when to let go.
• Not Every Battle Is Worth Fighting – Learn to identify what truly matters and what’s just noise.
• Protecting Your Home’s Peace Is the Priority – Strategies for keeping stress out of your household, no matter how much an ex tries to pull you into conflict.
Links and Resources Mentioned:

• Blended Family Resource Guide: Download our free guide (https://offers.blendedpathways.com/) for more practical tips on building stronger connections in your blended family.
• Join the Conversation: Share your story and connect with other stepparents in our “Blended by Design” Facebook Group. (  / blendedpathwayscommunity  )


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