Marital Skill Gaps for Generation X and Millennials (and Generation Y) | S2E2 - Clip 11

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Mr. Homemaker's Definition & Purpose of MARRIAGE [Draft as of Sep 14, 2022]:
Exclusivity (especially Sexual Exclusivity)
Commitment (e.g. life-long)
Mutual Enrichment
Joint Endeavor to Bring up Children & Foster a Well-Functioning Family
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References
Seven Types of Love: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
Family & Marriage: The Functionalist Perspective on the Family – ReviseSociology;
Why Bother with Marriage:    • Why Bother With Marriage?  ;
US Supreme Court on Marriage: https://www.law.cornell.edu/supremeco...
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Classical Philosophy distinguishes six kinds of “love” relevant to our model of Marriage - Romantic Love being just one kind.
(1) Passionate Love [Eros] entails sexual “Romantic Love”
(2) Playful, Uncommitted Love [Ludus] entails fun and/or conquest - with no strings attached
(3) Friendship [Philia] entails mutual good will
Utility
Pleasure
Mutual Admiration = Goodness = Rationality & Virtue
(4) Familial Love [Storge] is like Friendship, but rooted in dependency, familiarity, and our identity (rather than qualities)
(5) Practical Love [Pragma] is founded on reason, duty, and long-term interests
(6) Universal Love (e.g. of strangers) [Agape] is unselfish, altruistic concern for welfare of other [generally]
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United States Supreme Court (SCOTUS) Opinion, OBERGEFELL v. HODGES -

Four principles and traditions demonstrate that the reasons marriage is fundamental under the Constitution -
1. personal choice regarding marriage is inherent in the concept of individual autonomy;
2. a two-person union unlike any other in its importance to the committed individuals;
3. it safeguards children and families and thus draws meaning from related rights of childrearing, procreation, and education;

(a) Without the recognition, stability, and predictability marriage offers, children suffer the stigma of knowing their families are somehow lesser.
(b) They also suffer the significant material costs of being raised by unmarried parents, relegated to a more difficult and uncertain family life.
(c) Precedent protects the right of a married couple not to procreate, so the right to marry cannot be conditioned on the capacity or commitment to procreate.
4. marriage is a keystone of the Nation’s social order…. States have plac[ed] it at the center of many facets of the legal and social order.
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TED: Rethinking infidelity ... a talk for anyone who has ever loved at https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_pere...
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