Unlearning The Good Girl You Were Raised To Be ft. Ursula Mariani | According To B x Bernini

Описание: This episode of According To B is in partnership with Bernini - the sparkling spritzer born from real wine.

Who are you beyond praise? Beyond approval? Beyond productivity?

This conversation is for the woman who has always done what was expected - and is now asking deeper questions.

I sit down with Ursula Mariani and together, we explore what it means to outgrow versions of yourself that once kept you safe. From discipline and achievement to faith, conditioning, and authorship, Ursula shares how intellectual curiosity and emotional honesty can coexist - and how real freedom begins when you stop performing and start choosing.

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✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰

Ursula

Ursula Mariani is a lecturer, PHD candidate voice-over artist, and the host of the podcast: The Conversation Capital, where she explores the power of dialogue as currency-in relationships, leadership, and identity. Known for her clarity of thought and grounded presence, Ursula has become a trusted voice in conversations around womanhood, conditioning, faith, and personal authorship.

Her work sits at the intersection of intellect and introspection. Whether she’s in a lecture hall, behind a microphone, or leading nuanced discussions online, Ursula is committed to helping women question inherited expectations and consciously choose who they want to become.

✰ TIMESTAMPS✰

00:00 - Intro
03:24 - Meet Ursula
05:50 - Game: Toast or Ghost
19:44 - Ursula on being a good girl growing up
25:13 - The parts of herself Ursula left unexplored as a result of being a good girl
26:55 - Dilemma
34:05 - Ursula on growing into being independent and self-possessed
36:27 - Ursula on honouring parents without living according to their will
41:07 - The things Ursula has had to unlearn in the process of shedding
42:58 - The parts of herself that Ursula is only discovering now
44:53 - The part of herself that Ursula is excited to step into more
47:42 - What younger Ursula would think of her now
49:57 - Ursula receives her Breathe It In box
51:06 - Outro

✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰

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Guest

Ursula

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✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰

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✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰

Director: Bokang Lehlokoe
Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi
Production Assistant: Senamile Dlamini
Videography: Looped Pictures
Post Production: Looped Pictures