Repair in Relationships and How You can Help | Ep155

Описание: Repair in relationships requires more than apologies — it requires understanding what your nervous system needs after conflict, and having the willingness to ask for it without shame.

In this live episode, Georgianna shares how she discovered that even after resolving a conflict by day's end, her body would wake up the next morning still holding tension. Her partner, meanwhile, felt completely done the moment they made up. When she courageously shared her need for morning reconnection —without making herself wrong for needing it, or him wrong for not needing it — he created his own solution: a daily 7am reminder to check in and offer extra love.

This story illustrates the heart of relational repair: noticing what's happening in your body, naming it honestly, and trusting your partner to meet you in their own authentic way.

We explore why different nervous systems process conflict differently, how to stop the exhausting cycle of "I suck" vs "they suck," and why body-based self-connection practices are the foundation for speaking your truth in relationships.

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 – Intro: What we're covering today
01:41 – Georgianna's sweet repair story
04:38 – Why her body wasn't "done" after nighttime resolution
06:48 – How her partner created his own repair practice
08:21 – Making yourself wrong vs speaking your needs
12:18 – Why people have different repair timelines
18:45 – The "I suck / you suck" oscillation trap
24:32 – Body-based practice: Noticing what you need
31:15 – How small practices lead to big relational shifts
38:24 – Practicing clarity vs attacking
41:58 – Our programs: Toolkit, Somatic Sessions, CRT
44:36 – The power of morning reconnection
46:18 – Live Q&A and closing

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
✅ Why your nervous system might need repair even after you "talked it through"
✅ How to ask for what you need without shame, blame, or making anyone wrong
✅ The difference between clarity and attack in communication
✅ Why body awareness is essential for knowing what you actually need
✅ How to trust your partner to show up in ways that work for them
✅ Simple somatic practices you can use right now to connect with yourself

RESOURCES:
🔗 Somatic Sessions + the Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit: https://www.wholeheartedloving.com/pr...
🔗 Conscious Relationship Training starts March 14th: https://www.wholeheartedloving.com/crt

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If you're done seething silently, people-pleasing, or pointing fingers—and you're ready to speak your truth with clarity and compassion — this episode is for you.

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