学校没教过我们如何去爱？成年后补上的亲密关系必修课 Learn 230+ Vocab 中文听力【HSK4-6 中高级】Ep.23

Описание: In this video, I share a recent conversation I had with my 15-year-old niece about school, dating, and growing up. 🏫💔

We talk about the concept of "Zaolian" (早恋 / Puppy Love) — a huge taboo in Chinese schools. I discuss why I think simply banning early dating is problematic, and how this repressive environment, combined with our Native Family (原生家庭), affects how we handle relationships as adults.

I also share my personal thoughts on why "learning to love" is a skill we often have to teach ourselves after making mistakes. If you are interested in Chinese culture, psychology, or just want to practice your listening with some real, unscripted Mandarin, this episode is for you!

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