The Hidden Reason You Keep Arguing With Your Wife

Описание: If every conversation with your wife turns into an argument, especially when she says she’s exhausted or overwhelmed, this video will help you understand why. Most husbands are not trying to fight. But when your wife shares how burned out she feels, something inside you reacts.

You start comparing. You start listing everything you have done. You start defending yourself before you even realize it.

I do this too.

In this video, I’ll show you what is really happening inside your nervous system, why you feel attacked even when she is asking for support, and how to respond in a way that brings connection instead of conflict.

This is not about pretending you are not tired. It is about learning how to stay present when your worth feels threatened.

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What You'll Learn

Why performance based self esteem creates defensiveness in marriage
How your nervous system hijacks conversations
What your wife actually needs in that moment
The 3 step reset you can use in real time
What to say instead of defending yourself

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Chapter Markers

00:00 Why conversations turn into arguments
00:44 Why you start arguing
01:41 What happens when your nervous system takes over
02:47 What she actually needs
03:22 What you need to do
04:46 What to say instead
05:52 The 3 step reset in real time

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