Build GRIT at Catani FNC with Steven Baker

Описание: In early June 2024, ex-AFL player Steven Baker joined Catani Football and Netball Club to deliver a motivational speech to our members.

Steve had a big impact on our kids, initially with his humour and easy, raw vulnerability, then with a Cold Shower 'GRIT Challenge', and finally with a long lasting message that has crept under their skin... you don't have to be the best to try, but if you continue to try- you will be the best you that you can be.

Mum and Dad are boring, which means the kids dismiss a lot of the life lessons we try to impart on them. Having someone who commands the attention of a room share without hesitation or shame that he has faced many of the same challenges they are facing, and made it out the other side, sinks into their brains a lot more than the little nuggets of wisdom we try to breadcrumb along their path.
It takes a village, and having something tangible like a wristband and naughty catchphrase has had a big impact on my daughters, so I just wanted to share that I'm glad that they experienced 'a moment' that has led to so many more 'moments' over the last couple of months.

If they can succeed at 'something hard' like freezing water/beating the example set by a man known for being the embodiment of resilience, they can succeed at the 'next hard thing' like cleaning their room. Before you know it, these little victories become a part of their personality, and the next challenge is something to look forward to... nothing is too difficult to attempt anymore.

● Gratitude- Find something every day that you are thankful for. This has fostered a positive environment as a whole.
● Resilience- Being able to bounce back when we don't succeed or when life doesn't go our way (and having the guts to try again).
● Initiative- Finding drive from within. This one has been a big hit with the girls- I don't have to tell them every single thing they need to do, instead they're now becoming more independent.
● Teamwork- with all the above getting ticked off, the family as a whole feels more like a team than parents and children living in parallel. The kids are learning to be brave enough to face challenges on their own, which has built an atmosphere of encouragement and support from all.

(The kids are fine- they were determined to hit their goals and we made a judgement call to respect their wishes and demonste faith and trust in their abilities on this occasion rather than smothering their enthusiasm. Hot Chocolates, a roaring fire and hot water bottles followed immediately after).


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