Why Real Love Feels Wrong After Trauma || DR. GABOR MATÉ BEST SPEECH ||

Описание: #traumahealing, #lovewounds, #attachmenttrauma, #healinglove

Description:

Why does real love sometimes feel wrong after trauma? In this powerful motivational speech inspired by Dr. Gabor Maté, we explore how childhood wounds, emotional neglect, and hidden survival patterns shape the way we experience relationships, addictions, and our own bodies. With vivid stories, compassionate insights, and practical healing steps, this talk will help you understand why closeness can feel unsafe, why numbing becomes a coping mechanism, and how to take small, safe steps toward lasting change.

⏱️ Timestamps:

0:00 – 🌑 The paradox of love after trauma
1:20 – 💔 It’s not “what’s wrong with you” but “what happened to you”
3:30 – 🧩 Story: choosing distant partners
6:40 – 🍷 Story: numbing through work, scrolling, or substances
9:10 – 🚨 Implicit memory: the body remembers what the mind forgets
11:20 – 🌱 Practical first steps for gentle healing
13:30 – ☀️ Closing integration and invitation

Hashtags:

#trauma, #healing, #selflove, #motivation, #mentalhealth, #relationships, #attachment, #innerchild, #addiction, #recovery, #mindset, #growth, #resilience, #anxiety, #depression, #forgiveness, #selfcare, #inspiration, #boundaries, #love, #emotionalhealth, #awareness, #personaldevelopment, #healingjourney, #hope, #truth, #mindfulness, #compassion, #faith, #strength

Keywords:

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Why Watch This:
This speech offers deep compassion and clarity for anyone who has ever wondered why love feels hard, why old wounds keep resurfacing, or why numbing feels easier than feeling. You’ll gain understanding, tools, and hope—delivered in a voice that sees your pain without judgment.