Relationship Repair vs Trauma Repair: The Difference After Betrayal

Описание: Relationship Repair vs Trauma Repair: The Difference After Betrayal

After betrayal, many people believe they’re “doing everything” because they’re communicating more, being transparent, sharing passwords, or answering questions. These efforts can support relationship repair, but they often miss the deeper reality: betrayal creates trauma. Trauma isn’t healed by access, explanations, or good intentions—it’s healed through safety, consistency, emotional attunement, and a willingness to sit with pain you didn’t cause but are responsible for addressing.

Helping a betrayed partner heal requires more than fixing behaviors; it requires understanding the nervous system impact of betrayal. It means tolerating their fear, anger, grief, and repetition without defensiveness or urgency to “move on.” It means validating their experience even when you feel you’ve already done enough. Relationship repair asks, “How do we get better together?” Trauma care asks, “How do I help you feel safe again?” Until that distinction is understood, no one is truly doing everything they can.

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