Resolving Relationship Conflict: Looking at the Therapeutic Window

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While I prepare to make new content for this channel, I am uploading a selection of videos from my old channel that I think are relevant going forward.

In this video recorded in 2017 for my other channel, I explain the therapeutic window (window of tolerance) and how it helps us understand what “regulated” feels like versus what happens when we get triggered outside of that space. I walk through what it looks like when we move above the window into fight/anger, or below it into shutdown/withdrawal, and practical ways to return to calm. I also apply the model to relationships, showing how couples can trigger each other’s old wounds and how real repair happens once both people are back in their rational, grounded state.

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0:00 – What the “therapeutic window” is and why it matters
0:47 – Inside the window: self-awareness, regulation, boundaries, connection
2:33 – Getting triggered above the window: fight/anger and how to come back down
5:55 – Dropping below the window: withdrawal, shutdown, and turning anger inward
8:34 – Couples dynamics: the trigger-dance, time-outs, and repairing in the calm zone