Authoritarian Parenting Style? Does Authoritarian Parenting Work? Parenting By Influence is best! 4

Описание: Does the authoritarian parenting style work? What are the effects? If you rely on authoritarian parenting you will be crushing the influence you have on your children. Watch as Brad explains why influence is the most important style of parenting and how authoritarians can change their ways! This is the first of the 4 parenting styles.

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Authoritarian parenting, one of the four main parenting styles, and in this video I'm going to give you an angle on authoritarian parenting that you've never heard of in any other parenting style video before. So let's do this. The strongest influence in your child's life wins. Is that you? I'm Brad Zude and this is Influencer Parenting. I'm Brad Zude with Influencer Parenting, and on this channel, we focus on helping you become the strongest influence in the life of your child because the strongest influence in the life of your child wins. That's how we're going to focus on authoritarian parenting today. Again, it's one of the four main parenting styles. So you have authoritarian, authoritative, permissive parenting, passive parenting. This is the most strict parenting style that they're in. Super high expectations, super strict, follow the rules, et cetera, et cetera. Authoritarian parents literally invented the phrase, "Because I said so." They are, "My way or the highway. I'm in control. You're not. I'm big, you're small, I'm important. You follow me."

So my wife and I, Greta, we have seven children of our own and everyone asks, "Oh my gosh, how do you do it? How do you keep the chaos down? But you have such incredible relationships with your children. How do you do this?" Now, running a home with seven children, it takes rules and it takes standards and it takes values and morals and goals and structure, all those good things you have to have in order to run an effective home. But we don't Lord those things over our children, right? We don't make them do them because I said so and I'm dad. And when you do that, when you become an authoritarian and you make people do things because you said so, it kills your relationship and it kills, most importantly, your influence. See, when it's all said and done, when your kids are all grown up or whatever, you're going to be left with one thing and that is your influence.

At that point, you can't ground them, you can't make them do things. You can't even make them like you. And every parent, if you could begin with the end in mind, you want to have a great relationship with your children, right? You want to take your son on a fishing trip. Moms, you want to go out shopping and have coffee and all that kind of stuff with your daughters. And if you have influence where they actually want to be around you and they actually like to be around you and they want the wisdom and knowledge that you have in your life, that's what influence is all about and that's when you know you've done your job as an effective parent. Most parents have the goal of, "I want to raise a responsible child. I want to raise a moral child." The problem is that they're willing, subconsciously, they're willing to sacrifice their relationship with their children in order to achieve it.

They actually love their children so much and they want them to be such a way so bad that they implode the relationship in the meantime, getting them to act moral and do good in school and hang out with the right crowd and get married and get a good job and all these sorts of things. And then when they're older, you find out, "Wow, I don't have a relationship with you and you don't influence my life and this is kind of awful. What did we do all that for?" Another big downfall of authoritarian parenting style is that your children will do whatever it takes to conform to the behavior. Because mom or dad, they're not giving the reason why or how you get to the behavior, they just want you to achieve the behavior.