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Описание: why it's so hard to date as a perfectionist ...

as a perfectionist sometimes you can get carried away scripting/writing all of the dream characteristics you'd like in a partner

you've probably seen all of the tiktoks on princess treatment, manifesting the perfect partner, how to attract the perfect partner etc and you can't help but get sucked in and dream of all the traits you'd like

but after reading the book How to Not Die Alone by Logan Ury

my mind was totally blown

turns out trying to find the 10/10 partner, who ticks all of your boxes and has NO red flags is not only exhausting but... it doesn't actually work

we don't guarantee finding, dating and marrying the write person by finding the making the perfect checklist...

but instead by adopting a new mindset altogether...

0:00 intro
1:41 you expect yourself to be perfect
4:28 the illusion of completion
8:39 chasing perfection
11:36 we chase excitement and not peace

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