What Did My Ex Mean? Decoding Your Ex's Behavior by Clay Andrews

Описание: Today, I'm talking about a common problem that a lot of people have when they are trying to win their ex back.

They tend to over analyze and try to decode every thing their ex does. They want to know what does it mean when he likes my status?
What did he mean when he said X, Y and Z.

They are always trying to interpret their ex's actions to mean something.

They want to know why they did and what they did.

Let's be honest, there's really no way for us to really know what is going on in their minds.

Your ex may have been hovering over your FB status and accidentally liked it.

They may have been preoccupied and didnt see you standing next to them so they forgot to smile and say hello.

There could be millions of reasons but if you're going to base how you feel on how they respond to you, it shows that you're not coming from a good place.

It means that you're coming from a place of reaction.

You're essentially reacting to your ex.

You can obsess all you want but its not going to change anything.

It's not going to change your odds.

It doesnt mean your odds are dropping or things are aligning perfectly for you two to get back together.

Are you going to obsess over his behavior when you're back together?

Are you going to obsess over her behavior 30 years from now?

Of course not right?

That's not how you build a strong relationship.

Go out in to the world. Be the best self that you can be!
If they like you for that then that's great.

If they don't? then why do you want to be with someone who doesnt like you for you in the first place?

You can't force people to want to be with you.

So what is the point of doing ANC? What's the point of doing anything?

Well it means you're giving yourself the best of chance of working things out with your ex.

It means you're learning to give yourself space to be who you are, and at the same time respecting your ex to be who they are.

You're learning to value yourself and value your ex.

And that is how a strong relationship is formed.

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Clay Andrews
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