Why Your Teen Ignores Punishments (And What Works Instead)

Описание: Tired of yelling at your teenager in the heat of the moment? You're not alone. Most parents confuse punishment with consequences, and their teens know it.

In this episode, Dr. Mark Schillinger breaks down the critical difference between reactive punishment (made up when you're angry) and structured consequences (teaching tools built into reality itself).

He shares the exact framework he's used with thousands of young men at The Young Men's Ultimate Weekend to help teens understand accountability without the power struggles.

You'll discover why "gimme your phone" and "you're grounded" backfire, how to explain consequences in a way your teen actually respects, and the virtue-based system that makes consequences feel fair instead of punitive.

If you're exhausted from fighting with your son over the same issues, this framework will change how your family operates.

** Key Takeaways **
• The one thing that turns a consequence into a punishment (and why teens reject it)
• How to explain consequences so your teen understands they're not made up by you
• The Virtues, Values & Behaviors model that stops the guessing game
• Why rewards are a trap (and what works better)
• The simple phrase that reframes every consequence conversation

** Resources Mentioned **
• Free Virtues & Values worksheet: email [email protected]
• Learn more about The Young Men's Ultimate Weekend at https://www.ymuw.org

It's never too late to move your family in the right direction. You just need a way that works.

** More Resources **
On-demand and live, online workshops for teenagers and young men are available here: https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/workshops

For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Mark or for more information about his parent coaching and mentoring young men, go to https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/

** About Dr. Mark Schillinger **
Dr. Mark Schillinger’s work has been featured on the CNN show “This is Life with Lisa Ling.” These videos are designed to help parents more effectively “challenge” or motivate their teenage sons to become more responsible and resilient. These videos offer straightforward advice so parents can minimize conflict and maximize cooperation with their sons – especially those young men who are distracted by their digital devices. For more information, visit https://www.challengingteenagesons.com

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