"Why Only Older Men Approach Me In The University... Young Guys Just Take My Number & Ghost 😩"

Описание: Hey everyone... I'm a uni girl heading into my third year, and something has been really confusing me lately.

For some reason, the only guys who approach me and actually try to take things further (like asking me out on real dates) are older men — think 30s and above. They're confident, make plans, and seem interested in pursuing something.

But when young guys my age (or close) approach? They usually just ask for my number, maybe text a bit... and then nothing. No specific plans, no real effort to take it further. It leaves me wondering: Is it something about me? My vibe? The way I look/dress? Or is this just how dating works in university these days?

I'm genuinely confused and wanted to share this raw experience because I know I'm not the only one dealing with it. Older men seem way more direct, while guys closer to my age feel... flaky? 😅

Have you experienced this? Do older guys approach you more? Or why do you think young guys take numbers but don't follow through? Drop your thoughts/stories in the comments — I really want to hear from you! Your experiences might help me (and others) figure this out 💬

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Timestamps:
Intro & what's been bothering me
My experiences with older men (30+)
What happens with guys my age
Why this might be happening (my thoughts)
Asking for your advice & stories

(Stay safe out there, trust your gut, and remember: you deserve real effort from anyone who approaches you!)

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